Where Is This Headed?

[pussyPurplewet]

You've been hooking up with this guy for almost a month and you feel that this can turn into something romantic. Do you think that it is a good idea to ask him where this is headed or you should just enjoy what you have and don't put any labels on it?

[pussyManylicking]

It all depends on whether you're willing to lose him or not. Because asking him that question might make him stop seeing you. But based on your profile pic, I don't think that he's willing to lose someone like you.

[CupMister]

Just because of the picture? What if er attitude is not that good? That can also affect the guy's decision.

[pussyPurplewet]

You have a point, because there are people who will leave if you approach them. and I think it's better to enjoy what we have right now. pussyManylicking

[MissTee]

That topic will be talked about by you two at any moment so you should just be ready to explain your side on him.

[Orangexana]

I think that she already knows what to say to him and she might be asking is when is the right time to ask that question.

[pussyPurplewet]

I am afraid if you try to explain to him and he won't get it,there is a possibility that he will leave. right? MissTee

[MonalMonarchy]

Talking about your partner regarding those issues is something to be talked about in a relationship. So you could just open it up to him and be ready for what his side would be.

[Funferral]

Have you been in that situation before and he told that you guys shouldn't put any labels in it.

[MonalMonarchy]

Yes, but that was a long time ago. I already broke up with him. Funferral

[assSquealingtight]

I would just wait for him to ask me about it and if he did not ask it would okay for me to stay as a no-label couple.

[Planeryte]

Are you afraid of being rejected if you are the one to initiate the topic?

[Fitwilkom]

You would be left clueless for long if you would not have the courage to ask him about it.

[NaughtyTaco]

If you feel that you're the one who's somewhat in control of the situation, go ahead and ask him that. But if it is the other way around, then just wait for him to ask that question.

[Stellar]

If he got a bigger balls than you which they really are lol then let him do and take care of the situation.

[DonVoom]

If I were you, just play it safe by enjoying what you have at the moment. Because trying to rush things might ruin it.

[MacabreMachine]

I guess that is how you usually handle it if you are in that same status.

[DeeBeat]

To ruin the perfect moment is like changing your course from heaven to hell.

[FitBiggMdogg]

I'll just enjoy our time and would not think about how to get it on the next level because things might start to get awkward if one confesses what he or she feels.

[StipeRipe]

If it's turning out to be good then it's better to let it flow and wait for the perfect time to confess your feelings with him.

[HotVirtuoso]

If I feel that he's worth the risk, then I might grab the opportunity of telling him my feelings towards him in the hopes that he feels the same.

[CrushHaircut]

So you're not going to feel bad for yourself if he ends up ditching you because of it?

[HotVirtuoso]

CrushHaircut No, I won't regret my actions at least I got conclusions to where it's headed.

[CrushHaircut]

You are so tough then. I would be so sad I'll do that. HotVirtuoso

[pussyGreedytight]

I actually asked a fuck buddy that question before and he just told me that why do we have to complicate and put labels on things. We should just enjoy what we have at the moment. After that hookup I decided to ignore all his messages.

[BurntDrillSap]

Have the two of you cross paths a couple of months or years after you ghosted him?

[pussyGreedytight]

Yeah, and I feel guilty about it, but I think he is already fine. BurntDrillSap

[BurntDrillSap]

If you could turn back time, will you do things differently?

[pussyParchedlicking]

If I will in that position I probally enjoy the moment and if the situation getting close I would ask him right away.